PARENTS AND CHILD BONDING


It is a fact of life that we become the result of the insights and learning we have had since birth. The environment in which we live has a significant influence on how our thinking will change and, consequently, how we act and make decisions. As our role models and examples, parents are significant figures in our life. There is something special about the bond between parents and their kids. The type of parent-child relationship has a massive effect on the child's development.




Parenting necessitates a lot of adapting.  The generation gap is the major factor that contributes to issues in relationships between parents and children. Parents today attempt to compel their kids to lead disciplined lives. For instance, they try to influence the children's decisions by telling them to keep quiet when they are discussing a family matter.

As a result, kids don't open up to their parents, which makes the parents wary of them. Children often lose trust in parents when they are trying to figure out exactly what is going on because they believe that they are constantly attempting to catch them doing something wrong. Additionally, parents, on the other hand, have more experience dealing with life's difficulties. They work to shield their children from the issues they had to deal with as youngsters. They try many methods for doing this, and these methods greatly affect the relationship between parents and children.




The child's mental health may be ruined if the parent punishes the youngster regularly rather than discussing them. However, it spoils the youngster if the parent usually spares the rod. Parenting is more of a process of trial and error; there is no ideal way to do it. However, only when both the youngster and the parent put forth effort can parents and children have a very excellent relationship. It is better to talk to them, go out for a movie or a family picnic, and be there than to give them gifts. As the famous saying goes…. "Try to develop your relationship, don't try to perfect your child."



In conclusion, parenting is an ongoing process that requires adaptation, patience, and effort from both parents and children. It's essential to acknowledge that there's no perfect way to be a parent, and mistakes are inevitable. However, by putting in the effort to communicate, spend quality time, and build a strong relationship, parents can positively impact their children's development and mental health. Remember, the goal is not to perfect your child, but to develop a healthy and loving relationship with them. So, let's strive to be the best parents we can be and cherish the special bond we share with our children.